Should You Give Your Number or Should They Ask?

Yesterday I got into a small debate with my coworkers about whether you should give your number to someone that seems interested or if they are supposed to ask. In my opinion, if someone is interested in you then they should ask for your number. I mean imagine it like this, someone compliments your looks… Continue reading Should You Give Your Number or Should They Ask?

Advice, Thoughts

Time Management

Time management is one of the hardest things for me because I am a procrastinator but in the same token, I need structure because I have problems focusing. I thrived when it came to school because everything was set out on a schedule and I enjoyed the acknowledgement of my efforts. Setting a schedule for… Continue reading Time Management


Trapped In A Dream…or Nightmare

Have you ever had a dream where you felt yourself so engrossed in the storyline that you just couldn't pull away? It is sort of like you are concentrating to stay asleep just to see what comes next. Sometimes the dream can feel so vivid that you can barely tell that you are asleep. I… Continue reading Trapped In A Dream…or Nightmare



So by now most of us have seen the interview with R. Kelly vehemently denying any wrongdoing. He exclaims that he is 'fighting for his life' and that we are 'killing him.' He jumps out of his seat and prostrates his hands aggressively seemingly to get his point across. All while Gayle King watches passively… Continue reading R.Kelly…Genuine?

Relationships, Thoughts

I’m not a Quinn, I’m a Catwoman

In my romantic relationships for most of my life, I have been a Harley Quinn. A capable woman who allows herself to be a doormat in the name of love. A woman who seemingly is doing just fine until a Joker comes into her life and causes her to become obsessed with his love and… Continue reading I’m not a Quinn, I’m a Catwoman

Advice, Thoughts

Emotional Control

Control of your emotions is akin to holding power over your primal brain. When emotions are left unchecked you can fall prey to them. You are moved only by your feelings which can leave you making poor decisions you otherwise wouldn't have. Controlled emotions allow you to take in the world more objectively. You become removed from… Continue reading Emotional Control


The Man Who Cried Hate Crime?

The news outlets are a flurry over Jussie Smollet and his claims of being the victim of a hate crime. Multiple news outlets have reported that Jussie Smollett was attacked on an early morning in Chicago by two assailants who yelled racial and homophobic slurs, poured bleach on Smollett, and left a noose around his… Continue reading The Man Who Cried Hate Crime?