There are some universal things that I feel both parties in a relationship must bring to the table for a relationship to truly flourish and last. These basics center on the ability to care for yourself. It is crucial you know how to do so before trying to shirk the responsibility onto your partner. It isn't… Continue reading Basics In Dating
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Old Things
Some months ago my mom was cleaning out rooms in our house and she came across a box where I kept all the things from my most heartbreaking relationship. I just happened to come in when she discovered it. My mother was ranting from the other room, "We have to clean out a lot of… Continue reading Old Things
Saturated
You come like a blazing wildfire, Unexpected, a live wire, Like the ghost of Christmas past, All I see is you, it's an unsolicited blast, Forcing me to see your face and smile, You dominate my consciousness for quite a while, Just when I feel enough is enough, You churn more in one last… Continue reading Saturated
Emotional Control
Control of your emotions is akin to holding power over your primal brain. When emotions are left unchecked you can fall prey to them. You are moved only by your feelings which can leave you making poor decisions you otherwise wouldn't have. Controlled emotions allow you to take in the world more objectively. You become removed from… Continue reading Emotional Control
Oceanic Reverie
I stood at the edge of the ocean, Thinking on life decisions I've made, I was transfixed by the waves motion, They drew me in closer, into the water I wade, The sun's rays washed me in their warmth, Soothing my mind's inner storm, Lost was I in the tides that ebbed and flowed, My… Continue reading Oceanic Reverie
Levels of Feelings
I've come to rethink how I define feelings toward other people or things. We use love for pretty much everything but I believe there are levels of feelings. I think the initial superficial level is infatuation. Infatuation is synonymous with a crush, it's defined by the Oxford dictionary as a short-lived intense passion or admiration… Continue reading Levels of Feelings